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point is not to lower her self-esteem or make her feel stupid; it?s just to show that you can disagree and that you have your own views and opinions. If you do break rapport, the best thing to do is quickly change the subject, to avoid turning your conversation into an argument.

On numerous occasions, girls have told me that after just a few hours they feel like they?ve known me for months. The reasons are:

She?s clearly happy for you to stick around and talk more. You can tell you?ve reached the hook point when:

You can tell you?ve reached the hook point when:

It establishes you as high status?other guys wouldn?t dare do this!

Open nonverbally (hip bump/eye contact/gesture/other nonverbal acknowledgment).

You can then mirror a particular girl?s dancing in an exaggeratedly funny way, get eye contact, and force interest.

Do Not Do This Stand around the girls, checking them out while not dancing yourself. Make a sad attempt to dance without being into the music, just trying to get near the girls. Grind on a girl?s ass.

My girlfriend thinks you?re hot. This line uses fake social proof, a guy with a girlfriend being higher value than a single guy out on the prowl, to make it easier to open. Point to some random hot girl as your ?girlfriend.? Later it can be revealed that she?s just a female friend, and you?re in fact single?although you?re friends with lots of girls.

You need to know what you?ll follow it up with. So you can use that opener and then your transition

If you open with, ?Hey, should I dye my hair blond?? and the girl says, ?Yes,? and you say, ?Okay, thanks?bye,? you haven?t accomplished anything.

I?d be talking to a girl, but most of my attention would be focused on what to say next, how my body language was, whether my voice was loud enough, whether my sweaty palms would turn her off, and I?d miss all the little signals that she was giving me.

Don?t try to conquer your fear or practice pickup skills only with women you find super-hot. That would take too long.

Direct game involves approaching, immediately conveying interest, then rapidly intensifying the interaction with words and kino-escalation (a.k.a. increasingly sexual touches?a touch on the arm, then the small of back; then holding hands, stroking through her hair, kissing, etc.).

Indirect game is basically coming in under the radar, getting the girl comfortable with you, and slowly introducing the sexual vibe.

The Mr. Seducer character doesn?t just pop out of left field when you need him.

Usually, Mr. Comfort can?t start conversations very well and isn?t very seductive, so it?s awkward when he goes in for a kiss.

Be well groomed.

Get the best haircut you can afford.

Most guys fidget. They?re nervous, and it shows. Their weight shifts from leg to leg. When they?re out at a bar, they hold their drinks up close to their chest and frequently take sips. They don?t take up much physical space, literally.